Dynamic Duo-isms

The things these boys say.  I know, I know, if you are reading this, you are probably sick of hearing about these things, but seriously, they are hilarious.  Frustrating at times, but still hilarious.  We’ve been MIA in blog world recently because the terrible twos are just tiresome on most days.  Naps and bedtime are just a tad more difficult, although, all in all, I cannot complain.  Sometimes I want to, but then they do something so sweet, or say the funniest thing and I have to remind myself that the testing phase will continue forever and it is not that bad…free will is a bitch, right?  Or is it karma…food for thought today!

Hammer time!

Monster trucking at the beach!

 

Mommy’s hatching – This is probably the funniest, and maybe the most embarrassing thing ever said about me.  Raleigh looks at my heel, mind you, I am in desperate need of a pedicure, and said, “mommy’s hatching.”  I first thought he said “scratching” but no, he said “hatching” as in an egg hatching.  Um, thanks, and ewww! 
Muff cakes anyone?  Never heard of a “muff cake?” Well, if you have, maybe you are thinking, does this belong in a blog post centered around kids?  To let you know, a muff cake is a cup cake.  I think it started out as a muffin and a cupcake, and now all cupcakes are “muff cakes” and muffins are just muffins.  I cannot correct them when they say it because again, I am wrong, and just have a good old laugh every time they say it!  Nothing like going to a kids birthday party and two little boys yelling with glee “MUFF CAKES!” 

Donald’s House – the boys call McDonald’s “Donald’s House.”  We have only been a few times, usually on special one-on-one occasions with the boys.  I just think it is funny that they call it Donald’s House.
No, not yet, five minutes, or one minute, two minute, etc.  They will ask for two more minutes of a toy, or one minute before we go, or two minutes before they have to switch toys with their brother.  They know two is more than one minute, and five is a big request, so they save it for the good stuff.  It has come in handy when we need them to take turns, we ask them to ask their brother or friend to switch or for a turn in two minutes.  It generally cuts down on their fights, whew!  It is hard to resist extra cuddles when they say, “no, not yet, Mommy, five minutes, cuddle me more mommy.” Awww!

Can we feed the ducks?  So we are at Busch Gardens with friends.  One of my friends is cool enough to have worked their pre-twinkies and still knows a lot of people at Busch.  One of our favorite areas is the new Walkabout area with Australian animals.  The boys are too young to feed the kangaroos and wallabies, but they can feed the ducks nearby.  Well, our good friend Miss K did not know the person at the food stand, so we did not get duck food this particular day…until Raleigh walked up and batted his eyes and said “feed ducks, please.”  Well, we all got cups for everyone and had fun feeding the ducks for free.  Thanks, Raleigh!  Here is the lady below, holding a little wallaby, named Stanley. 
 
Starbucks, that’s mommy’s coffee place. They can spot a Starbucks about as quickly and well as they can spot a police car.  For this, I am thankful! Don’t worry, in the shots below, they are drinking harmless chocolate milk – not coffee!
 
That’s a weed, and pull.  Augustus is mini-Matthew ALL THE WAY! I love his OCD, as I know it will make him a great man.  We were playing in the backyard, which is mostly paved, and he was mowing his mower – his fave – and saw a piece of grass sticking up through the pavers.  He immediately yelled “that’s a weed” and proceeded to pull it.  Such a good little-man!
 
New shoes! New shoes!  The boys are obsessed with new shoes.  Although, now they are not so new, but newer.  The boys have been in size 7 for FOREVER! Seriously, almost a year now.  We finally broke down and got some new size 7s and you would think Gus won the lottery.  He immediately wakes up and wants his new shoes on.  We have about 4 pairs that he considers new shoes.  That is the easiest thing to make him happy without even trying!

They still bring their penis up at random times in conversation and this is quite amusing.  Although, I have to try not to laugh.  Raleigh has also taken to pulling his pants down outside for a fire hose pee every so often…we are trying to house train him again!  However, it does come in handy when we are no where near a restroom out and about…does that officially make me a Redneck?  For example, our multiple birth mom’s club was at a preserve walking the boardwalk with our littlies, and all of us just let our kids pee into the woods off the side of the boardwalk…much easier than running back to the restrooms a mile and a half away.  I was pretty impressed with the little girls who could do as well as the boys;)

  

Augustus, enjoying his spaghetti thoroughly.  this boys loves to eat and it shows whenever he does!

Making cheetah masks.  Notice the clothespin holding the sponges to get the boys less dirty.  Notice, I did not say, keep them clean, just less messy!  More about this in a crafty blog post coming soon.

Daddy makes the best pancakes.

Fun food cutouts.  We’ll try anything to help mealtime go well.  Love the cookie cutter sandwiches, here we have a cow and a chicken with flowers.  Also, we are getting on the bento bandwagon and trying to eat lots of food on sticks. Fun times.  If you have not seen this web site, http://www.anotherlunch.com/ check it out! AWESOME!

 

More craftiness

Another air port run.  Both boys were highly jealous of Nonnie’s princess hat!  They really, really, wanted it! 

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Hope you enjoyed the Smilebox I made yesterday from Sweetfield Farms. 
Here is a look back at last year’s trip.

• Sweetfield Farm Trip 2009 

Oh, how they’ve grown!

Is it Possible that Potty “Training” is Over?

I know this is another post about PT, but really, it is not all about the potty. I feel like the “training” part is actually over.  They get it, they really do.  No more accidents (knocking wood just a little bit), they are communicating they have to go and we’ve been out and about quite a bit as well, and they are amazing on all types of potties, even the ones that flush while they are sitting on them (I think they like to watch it flush).  Again, proud does not even begin to describe how we feel, but seriously, we have nothing but pride for these boys and their ability to change and grow without much strain on anyone!  Love them, love them, love them.  Impressive boys.  Okay, enough gloating.

 

We headed to Busch Gardens yesterday with a bunch of twin friends.  It was loads of fun. Although, I think part of me melted away, it was so hot.  The boys did not seem to mind one little bit.  They had a ball.  Augustus was flirty ceaselessly with Miss A.  He has been crushing on her since before he could walk.  She is the older woman, and together, they are the fluffiest, blondest, bluest eyed little ones you swear you have ever seen. So basically, cuter than cute!

 

Today the boys had an adventure with a monarch butterfly.  So awesome.  The butterfly was in love with Augustus and vice versa.  Raleigh was a big old fraidy cat.  He jumped and squirmed when it was on his shirt, but he wanted him on him so badly.  Too funny.  Pretty indicitive of their current personalities. Gus will try just about anything, and Raleigh is a bit more hesitant until he feels comfortable.  But then, look out!

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Potty Training Updates

We are ridiculously proud of these boys!  They have been doing amazingly with potty training.  Augustus continues to wake up from naps and overnight dry.  Raleigh is generally dry at nap, but usually has a bit of pee pee in his pull ups.  I think next week we’ll ditch the pull ups overnight to see if that helps him not feel like he has a safety backup. Augustus only had two accidents since the last update, and unfortunately, both were poop accidents.  However, I had to run upstairs after their breakfast to get some towels for our beach excursion and he did it while I was gone.  Matthew was with the boys yesterday morning and the same thing happened.  Raleigh is excellent at telling us when he has to go to the bathroom; which I really did not expect within the first week of training.  Yesterday, we spent a few hours at the pool and he even asked to use the potty during swimming – something he loves more than anything and hates to take a break from.  He even did his first poopy on a public potty.  Wow!  Those of you without kids, I know this is totally not exciting stuff…but for us it is amazing!!! 

On day four of the potty training, we went out to the beach with our twinkie group.  I was a little hesitant, but I figured the beach was the best place to test out the waters, so to speak.  I did not put pull ups for the drive to the beach and both boys were dry when we arrived, then went to the potty in the public restrooms, and we also had our handy Ikea potty with for emergencies.  The boys both used the little potty again before we left and stayed dry the entire ride home.  The ride took even longer because we had to find a gas station and were slowed down by a big accident about a mile from our house.  Then we even went on a trip again in the evening to pick Nonnie up from work and drive her home and still, no accidents!  That was over two hours of driving time and no mess. Yay!

Not all of our life is about the potty, like I mentioned above, we went to the beach and the pool with friends.  Fun times!  The beach was doable on my own with a little help from some fantastic twin Moms, but the pool I had lots of help from my mom.  The boys good friend little C was there with his adorably pregnant Mommy, too.  Gus of course is in love with Miss A, and was all over her and her “assets.”  Got to love those Hamilton men!  Thank goodness for Nonnie and Miss A, there is no way to do the pool on my own!  These boys never stop.  It is amazing the energy they have.  Like little energizer rabbits.  Matt’s Nan always says, you can teach a child to calm down, but you really cannot wind them up. So true, so true.  I have to remind myself of that wisdom every once and a while when they are just all out, all the time!  Enjoy a few shots from our week!

Potty Training Day Three

The morning started out so rough, with two major pee pee accidents, but by 11 am we were really on a roll and it just kept going all day.  We even made a quick trip to visit Grandpa Pickles after naps and they peed before leaving, twice while there and again when we got home, accident free!!!  Raleigh was on point with pooping and told me prior to each on one before successfully heading to the potty.  Augustus was poop free today.  I think he is a bit more hesitant to poop on the potty, but he is really good at trying to pee often, and is starting to say he has to pee pee.  He was dry again during naptime!  Yay!!! I think we’ll keep going staying close to home, although it may be driving us all a little nuts, but hopefully within a few more days we’ll be braver to get out.  Daddy of course is home this weekend, so we’ll take the tag team approach and hopefully get things clicking.

Night time has been interesting so far…I am still listening to Raleigh talk in bed at almost 8:30. They are usually out by 7:30. He has talked about his bum itching (pull-ups), and about all his family, in particular Papa Pickles, and all sorts of crazy talk.  Hello, too many M&Ms after dinner!!!!  All in all, successful day three. I am pretty exhausted with another 12 hour pee pee and poo poo watch.  When I say watch, I really mean watch.  It is an all day event watching for signals of going to the potty to help them realize that feeling and be able to potty completely on their own without such vigilance.  Of course, I know it won’t be completely on their own, there is still the wiping and all that comes with toddlers using the toilet! Thank goodness for DVR and a new season of Top Chef to help decompress tonight…wine would be so good too, but diet, smiet!

Potty Training Day Two

The morning was awesome, the late afternoon not so much.  But we are not deterred, nope, not one bit.  I know they are getting it.  Just waiting for a real click to turn on. 

This morning Augustus had a half an accident since he started peeing, stopped, and looked at me in horror, and finished his pee on the potty.  Huge success in that Gus stayed completely dry during his THREE hour nap.  Raleigh had a little pee in his pull-up, but not nearly as much as yesterday.  However, we made huge progress today in another area.  We finally stopped doing milk right before naps and bedtime.  Yay!  Of course, they've been off bottles for a long time, but we did sippies with a little milk before each just as a calm down period.  It has been their habit - yes, induced by us - since they were teeny-tinies.  They were not fully happy about it, but went to sleep like champs without shedding a tear.  Hoping that this will help us move towards no pull-ups during sleep really soon!

The inevitable happened...they both started a poop in their pants.  It happened as Matthew was getting home and we were talking and I was still cleaning up the kitchen.  Raleigh first, Augustus soon thereafter.  Thankfully they had undies on...something they are not always willing to do.  They still love to be nekkid!  Both realized they had done it and ran for the potty right away.  Again, we'll take it. I can see that they get it, and tomorrow is day three of boot camp potty training, so hoping they really click tomorrow. 

The stickers were a really big incentive today.  The M&M's were still a goal for Raleigh, but Gus was really all about getting stickers.  We have also stopped washing up in our half bath's sink.  It is too high, even with our Ikea step stool, and they are such water babies, that all they want to do is play with it and splash it everywhere, which is not only bad for the paint, but more importantly, dangerous for the boys since it makes the tiles ridiculously slippery.  So, we've moved on to antibacterial hand wash for now.  I am not a fan of the stuff because I don't want the boys to grow resistant to every bug out there, but, we are talking fecal contaminants here, so I guess it is not that bad...aren't you glad you read my blog;) I guess that is my only suggestion, or word of wisdom for this day, except that I also firmly believe no TV during potty training.  That was a contributor to the first day's accidents, and it definitely just takes away from the constant vigilance that potty training takes.  Here's hoping tomorrow is another success and we can make it out into the real world on Friday!

Potty Training Day One!

Well, I am going to do a running commentary today as we are home all day.  The boys are fully occupied with new toys (mostly in part to our toy swap and the moms’ of multiples meeting last night), play dough and of course, lots of juice flowing and the occasional M&M for doing their duty on the potty.  We are actually playing the songs that came with our Pull Ups video on potty training as I begin this post this morning.  They love it and have watched it three times in a row (don’t worry, it is less than five minutes long).

  

We started our day outside after breakfast, in our new undies they each picked out. 

 

They did not pee or poo outside for an hour, but they also did not have any accidents.  We moved inside – goodness, it is hot even at 8:30 in the morning – and they both made a pee pee on the potty.  They were ridiculously psyched to get an M&M color of their choosing after the big celebration. 

I also started out the day setting a timer for every ten minutes to make them sit down and get a sticker for even trying, but really, they are kind of past this idea.  They were like “why are you asking if we have to pee every ten minutes, Mom?”  So, we skipped that tool…I may have stopped too soon as you read on.  As of 10:30 Gus had peed three times, and Raleigh only once.  Seriously, Rals not only has a steel trap mind, but a steel trap bladder to boot!  I think I have peed four times more than them combined.  Of course, I am on a diet where I drink over 160 ounces of water a day…and coffee, too!

 

Well, it took until 11 am, but the first accident happened.  For both.  No biggie.  Just saying “pee pee goes in the potty” after each one. They were back into the swing of things after that; however, I moved play time to the tile only! After lunch Raleigh even went poo poo on the potty without prompting.  He stood up and declared “teeny tiny.”  I knew exactly what he meant, because he has done this before after a teeny, tiny poop.  About ten minutes later, he said “poo poo” and proceeded to sit on the potty chair and went a BIG poopy!  YAY!!!  Party on the potty!  Gus tried and tried to poo poo, but to no avail before nap time. 

I have to laugh because both boys needed to go to  the potty once I put them in their rooms for naps.  Gus tried to poo for almost five minutes before I just had him give up and head to bed. Then of course, Raleigh wanted to pee pee when I put Gus back in the room.  He tried, but I only waited two minutes because both had made huge pees right before bed. I am really proud of their morning!  I thought nap time would be more difficult, but they fell asleep promptly after their potty excursions.  They only went down 20 minutes later than their usual.  Yay boys. 

I don’t know how many times I said I was proud, but wow, I am one proud mama today!!! The one thing I was not expecting was for a few tears about wanting diapers.  Hmm, that sucked.  All in all though, they were pretty excited.  More excited to be naked than in underpants though, so tomorrow we’ll try for a more civilized day;0

The bonus for the day was the over three hour nap the boys graced me with!  Thank you boys!!! I got time to clean up and clear out the changing table and diaper genie, rearrange cubbies in the storage unit, and most importantly have some good girl talk on the telephone – a serious rare occurrence for me!

The afternoon was much of the same. Lots of potty success.  The only other missteps were that I did not have the pull ups for night time ready, so I had to run downstairs for them while they boys were naked after showers.  Darn Matthew having to work late night one!  I really should have tried to get them on the potty before heading down….so it is no surprise that Gus left a little pee pee on his towel.  Nonetheless, I would say this was a very successful day of potty training.  The biggest hints and suggestions I can give is to start introducing your kiddos to the idea of going on the potty early and often. I always talked about “mommy” having to go pee pee on the potty, and talked about flushing and saying good-bye to the pee or poo and of course, about washing my hands afterwards.  They caught on early and although I did not force them to use the potty prior to today, I did ask them if they wanted to, or had to go, and usually they would do so.  Additionally, of course being a huge cheerleader and supporter of any attempt and of course actual use of the potty is the best thing for them.  They love the support and sense of self achievement most of all!